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Welcome to the Mercurial Muser

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I used to be

something.

I used to

love art.

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Now I get angry

dusting

the same landscapes—

no closer than

my living room.

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My husband likes

to remind me

how I used to fuck

like a bad girl

underneath the sun.

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His friends used to have

group chats

dedicated

to the bathing suits

I wore

in the summer heat.

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Like I was

supposed to

never degrade—

only bloom

for the love

of a man.

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Now I have

a favourite spatula

and trade

in Rae Dunn

collectibles.

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I used to

believe in

uprisings

and pixelated dreams

pasted to

a poster board.

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Like I was

supposed to

grow up.​

 

But instead,

I’m growing in.

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A muzzle to wear

over that pretty

filthy mouth,

a tiny, beaded noose

from a craft kit

kept high

in the cupboard,

a fading light

kept alert by

a persistent

electronic tether—

all it’s good for is to check the weather.

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(all it’s good for is to check the weather)​

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But the sky

ain’t blue today...

Updated: Aug 30, 2023

July 4th 2023

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Hi there! I'm Melissa, a whimsical thirty-something living a sweet dream on the west coast of Canada. As a mental health and substance use professional working with marginalized individuals, I am passionate about reducing inequality, promoting trauma-informed practice, and bringing forth positive social change. Each of us has a journey to go on, but the way provisions are doled out makes a tremendous difference on the road ahead.


As a modern mom, I understand how challenging it is to raise fledgling humans in a culture that prioritizes profit and progress over people and planet, distractions over connection, and the oppressive institution of motherhood over the liberated and profound experience of mothering. I have two amazing, offbeat kids and two fur babies. I'm grateful to have them and a steady and grounded life-partner by my side keeping me tethered to what matters in the here and now.


As someone who has spent their entire life fascinated by the human experience, I believe that we find inner wholeness when we are attuned with nature and when we become relentless in excavating down to the core of our most authentic selves. This takes courage, and very often means going rogue against a culture that would prefer us to be passively asleep. What if we could exist differently? What if we could be liberated from ways of being that keep us starved and undernourished? This is the essence of the writing you will find on this blog.

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Those who know me best would probably describe me as feisty, outspoken, soulful, witty, and of course...mercurial. In any case, no matter how you ended up here, I'm glad you've stopped by to ponder and wander with me. Kick ass cowboy boots are welcome, but not required.

- M

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