To put presence first - Happy Holidaze.

This year was less about presents and more about presence. I don't have much to say about it other than the fact that besides making a bit of magic for the kids - especially my youngest who very much believes - I just feel depleted and defeated by the consumer capitalism that overtakes this holiday. It's too overwhelming for me. It makes me feel gross, and it cheapens the fun. I've wanted to pare it down for awhile now. This year we didn't go all out. It felt weird, but it definitely felt better. I knew almost everything that was going in my stocking. I mean, I bought most of it. I'm aging myself here, but I'd rather a good eye cream than a bunch of cheap nick nacks anyway.

And most of all?

I'd rather the quality time. I'd rather spend the day in jammies. I'd rather read books and play games with my kids. I don't know what we're going to do next year, but this year it was simple. I like simple. Turns out, the kids do better with it too.

Best to you and yours. May you find what works for you over the holidays and not feel forced to oblige larger family or societal traditions if they don't feel right for you.

Xo,

M